A Remembrance Video of Mattie

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to me that you take the time to write and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful and help support me through very challenging times. I am forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically have stopped writing on September 9, 2010. However, like my journey with grief there is so much that still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with me, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki



December 25, 2021

Saturday, December 25, 2021

Saturday, December 25, 2021

Tonight's picture was taken in December of 2008. Mattie was in the hospital and a friend brought him a glazed Dunkin Donut. Mattie went through a donut phase during treatment and thankfully we had such an amazing support network that they practically brought Mattie a donut daily. My joke back then was "one donut a day and everything will be okay!" Also friends brought Mattie a couple of Christmas stockings. Mattie decided to wear them instead as well as decorated his wheelchair with Santas! 



Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • Number of people diagnosed with the virus: 52,092,894
  • Number of people who died from the virus: 816,463


Today was a total blur! I got up at 7am and was working the entire day. My morning routine is consistent, I take a shower, get myself dressed and together, I make breakfast for everyone, and then go upstairs to get my dad out of bed, washed, and dressed. 

In addition to my usual routine, I was overseeing a dinner for ten people today. Thankfully I had Peter's help, but I am tired and can feel a sinus infection coming on. I typically get one every late December, early January and then one again in the summer. I am like clock work. So I am dragging. 

Before our company came at 1pm, I walked Sunny for an hour. Though this is another task, it is something I like doing. It gets me outside, bonding with Sunny, and not caregiving for an hour. So to me it is respite. I have working so hard on this house since June and I am still at it. It is a full time job!

Pictured in the photo above are (going counter clockwise): 

  • Charlotte (age 5) - our God daughter
  • Cesar (Charlotte's dad)
  • Gladys (Charlotte's maternal grandma)
  • My mom
  • Koseth (Charlotte's mom)
  • Me
  • My dad
  • Ilona (my friend who also lost her only child to cancer)
  • Attila (Ilona's husband and our friend)
  • and Peter is missing

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