Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 26, 2019

Friday, July 26, 2019

Friday, July 26, 2019

Tonight's picture was taken on July 29, 2008. Six days after diagnosis, Mattie had a bone biopsy. A bone biopsy is a procedure in which bone samples are removed (with a special biopsy needle or during surgery) to find out if cancer or other abnormal cells are present. Basically it is the official way of diagnosing osteosarcoma. I am not sure what was worse, the actual procedure (which involved general anesthesia) or the recovery. At home we were asked to remove the bandage. Mattie's skin was so sensitive that pulling something with heavy adhesive off of him was a nightmare. Here you can see that Mattie did not want me touching him. I was sitting next to him on the couch, while he tried taking the bandage off himself. However, I learned quickly over that year's time the fastest way to remove a sticky bandage...... was to use rubbing alcohol. 

Quote of the day: When I was starting out in this business, that was the norm. You did it all. You looked around, and entertainers could dance, sing, play the piano, act, make you laugh. ~ Carol Burnett


Last night we had the treat of seeing Carol Burnett live at the Strathmore theater in Bethesda, Maryland. The theater is beautiful and ironically we have never been to see a show in this venue. I am happy my birthday changed that.
Peter and I grew up on seeing the Carol Burnett show. She has brought family fun to generations of people, and now that her shows are on MeTV (as reruns), a whole new generation is getting to know her. 


The interior of the Strathmore. It reminds me of a smaller version of the Concert Hall at the Kennedy Center. While waiting for the show to begin, we struck up a nice conversation with the couple next to us. 



Keep in mind that Carol Burnett is 86 years old. From a distance it is hard to tell because her voice is strong (she even did her famous Tarzan howl for us), she is quick witted and spry on her feet. She in fact stood for a good portion of the two hour show. 

Like in her 11 year long TV show, last night, she had the lights turned up in the theater and for most of the show, the audience was asking her questions. You may think that would be boring! It could be if you are not Carol Burnett. The audience was firing unrehearsed questions at her and she was providing answers. Answers that illustrated her beautiful personality, well timed humor, and incredible life stories. I think Carol Burnett is a class act, who doesn't need to rely on politics or current events to be funny. She pulls in natural everyday things that we can relate to and does it in a clean and family friendly manner. 

The audience asked her whether she would come back to TV, because her humor is needed now more than ever. She said NO! She told us that the amount of money CBS spent to run the Carol Burnett show back then, would never fly today. In addition, she said the show was not about being perfect, but being real. Which again, would never fly in the very scripted and overly orchestrated TV shows of today. 


Carol Burnett did a tribute to Harvey Korman and Tim Conway. It was touching as she felt her show could never be duplicated, as these two great comedians are no longer alive. She showed us the classic dental skit (click on this photo), and what she told us was that Tim Conway (playing the dentist) went totally off script. As his goal was to get Harvey Korman (the patient) to break down in laughter.

I am glad we saw this incredibly talented living legend perform live!

This afternoon, I met up with my friend, Margy and her husband Ken. They took me out for my birthday. I met Margy on Facebook, through a mutual friend. We have been friends ever since. It is hard to believe that Margy has been diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer in January of 2018. Margy already survived thyroid cancer, worked for many years at a local hospital helping children with cancer, and ran a childhood cancer non-profit for 20 years. So she comes to her second cancer diagnosis with a great deal of insights and experience. To me, her strength and courage are amazing. 

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