Mattie Miracle -- 16 Years of Service

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 20, 2025

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Sunday, July 20, 2025

Tonight's picture was taken in July of 2004. This was our second trip to the Outer Banks of North Carolina with Mattie. That day we took him to Jockey's Ridge State Park. The Park has the tallest active sand dune system in the eastern United States. As you can see, Mattie and I were climbing it! Prior to having Mattie, we visited the Outer Banks frequently, but it took Mattie's presence for us to actually explore this amazing sand dune! It was a VERY HOT walk, but Mattie was interested, and as long as he wanted to do something..... I did it!


Quote of the day: It is easier to find men who will volunteer to die, than to find those who are willing to endure pain with patience. ~ Julius Caesar


Since my dad has been hospitalized, I have been trying to sleep to around 8am each day. Yet even with more sleep, I am not feeling better. In June, the muscles in my neck began hurting. I attributed it to spending time in front of the computer, during the Foundation's Walk season. However, the pain hasn't gone away. If my parents were not my full time responsibility, I most likely would be consulting a doctor. But I just do not have the time to address this issue. Adding pain into my daily routine is wearing my down. 

We got to the hospital today around 1:30pm. My dad has basically slept the entire day away. There are no therapies scheduled on Sunday, and instead the unit views it as a day of rest. My dad wasn't just resting, he looked like he passed out! I was able to get him to eat all his lunch and his dinner, and then I worked on his hygiene. It amazes me that hospitals do not shower patients daily, and in my dad's case they did not even change his clothes from yesterday. So I rectified that, shaved him with an actual razor, brushed his teeth, cleaned his hair and hands, and then put lotion on his arms and hands (as they were very dry from hospital dry air). 

My dad's cough and congestion are definitely much better, he isn't running a fever, and I would say that his back pain is improving. He is no longer on oxycodone. However, his sugar levels are all over the place and I am not happy that they initially wouldn't allow my dad to take his oral diabetic medication. Instead they have been giving him insulin shots. This is their standard procedure, which they do at each hospital admission, but finally they allowed me to bring into the hospital his oral med, and they are administering it to him daily.

I am signing off for today, because I am wiped out. July has been a hard month, with both my 30th wedding anniversary, my dad's fall and hospitalization, and then this week.... Mattie's diagnosis day (July 23) and my birthday (July 25). Since 2008, I have associated my birthday with Mattie's diagnosis, and have yet to be able to uncouple these dates!  

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