Mattie Miracle Walk 2023 was a $131,249 success!

Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation Promotional Video

Thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive!

Dear Mattie Blog Readers,

It means a great deal to us that you take the time to write to us and to share your thoughts, feelings, and reflections on Mattie's battle and death. Your messages are very meaningful to us and help support us through very challenging times. To you we are forever grateful. As my readers know, I promised to write the blog for a year after Mattie's death, which would mean that I could technically stop writing on September 9, 2010. However, at the moment, I feel like our journey with grief still needs to be processed and fortunately I have a willing support network still committed to reading. Therefore, the blog continues on. If I should find the need to stop writing, I assure you I will give you advanced notice. In the mean time, thank you for reading, thank you for having the courage to share this journey with us, and most importantly thank you for keeping Mattie's memory alive.


As Mattie would say, Ooga Booga (meaning, I LOVE YOU)! Vicki and Peter



The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation celebrates its 7th anniversary!

The Mattie Miracle Cancer Foundation was created in the honor of Mattie.

We are a 501(c)(3) Public Charity. We are dedicated to increasing childhood cancer awareness, education, advocacy, research and psychosocial support services to children, their families and medical personnel. Children and their families will be supported throughout the cancer treatment journey, to ensure access to quality psychosocial and mental health care, and to enable children to cope with cancer so they can lead happy and productive lives. Please visit the website at: www.mattiemiracle.com and take some time to explore the site.

We have only gotten this far because of people like yourself, who have supported us through thick and thin. So thank you for your continued support and caring, and remember:

.... Let's Make the Miracle Happen and Stomp Out Childhood Cancer!

A Remembrance Video of Mattie

July 3, 2020

Friday, July 3, 2020

Friday, July 3, 2020

Tonight's picture was taken on July 4, 2006. We were invited by Mattie's good preschool buddy, Zachary, and his family to watch the National fireworks show from their boat. It was our first and last time on the Potomac River for Independence Day. Mattie had a wonderful time and Peter and I found it fascinating how many people are on the water for the holiday. 

Quote of the day: Today's coronavirus update from Johns Hopkins

  • number of people who were diagnosed with the virus: 2,793,022
  • number of people who died from the virus: 129,405


I got up this morning at 6am. I got myself showered, dressed, made the bed, and was about to start breakfast. When I got a call from the caregiving agency letting me know that my dad's caregiver needed an emergency root canal today. Thankfully I was here and could take over the care for the day. Naturally if I were not here, the agency would have sent another caregiver. Given that I trained three people in a week's time, they did not want me to have to repeat the process today! Which I appreciated! While training people this week, showering and dressing my dad took anywhere from an hour to 90 minutes. Whereas, when I go it, I can get it all done in 30 minutes! 

Which was a good thing, because my dad had a wound care appointment today at around 9am. The physician's assistant and his assistant came to the house, but I wanted my dad washed, dressed, and with enough time to eat breakfast and take pills before they arrived. It was a successful morning and we got it all done. 

The wound care specialist was lovely. He "debrided" the wound. A NEW term to me. Wound debridement is the process of removing dead tissue from wounds. The dead tissue may be black, gray, yellow, tan, or white. Wounds can heal faster if dead tissue is removed. Dead tissue can trap bacteria. Bacteria may lead to wound infections. Bacteria can cause odor. Wounds that have dead tissue take longer to heal. New tissue cannot grow.

This is a photo of the debrided wound. I asked the specialist how this developed and he said from being sedentary and malnourished. Thankfully my dad is eating again, but during the COVID-19 lock down, he lost his appetite and refused to eat anything other than cereal. If you have been following along, then you know my dad lost 30 pounds during Covid, refused to eat, and developed a urinary tract infection, a kidney stone, and an impacted colon. He was hospitalized twice, dealt with persistent hiccups for a week, and also had delirium. It has been a lot to manage and given how I found him on June 9th, he is more stable now. But with that said, my dad needs constant support and supervision and of course we are all saddened by his massive cognitive decline. A decline that I hold quarantine from Covid-19, a urinary tract infection, and being on Thorazine for a week to treat recurrent hiccups personally responsible for! In fact, if I did not intervene, my dad's doctor would have had him on Thorazine for longer. Instead, I researched persistent hiccups and suggested the doctor give my dad Baclofen! Which worked in one day's time! You have to be your own doctor. But I learned this the hard way from Mattie!

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